I hope everyone had a Happy Halloween! Both kids went trick-or-treating and had a great time.
Birth mom called before trick-or-treating and we thought it was to say Happy Halloween to my stepson and see what he was doing. Oh no. It couldn't be for a sweet and motherly reason.
She didn't even ask my stepson about Halloween or what he was going to do. She had to tell my husband that my stepson would be spending the weekend with her relatives because she works all weekend and she wanted to find out if my husband could give him some money to spend because her relatives would be taking him to some flea markets and he needed money to buy stuff. What a piece of work.
He's going to her relatives and they are taking him somewhere, but we are supposed to pay for stuff. Makes a lot of sense.
Maybe if we were able to supervise his spending and make sure the item he bought wasn't used by birth mom or by her other son (who was previously known as her "brother") who lives with her or thrown away in the trash, then maybe we would think about giving him some spending money.
But I think for the simple fact that it's her weekend and her relatives, she is obligated to provide money, not us! We aren't Fanny Mae, ready to provide loans when she doesn't have money.
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Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Thursday, October 4, 2007
My Mom Doesn't Want Me On Halloween
My stepson's birth mother has her visitation day on Halloween this year. She has NEVER had him for Halloween.
My husband and I have had him for Halloween every year for the past 7 years. Before that, he was too young to go trick-or-treating.
She actually told my husband two days ago that she will switch her visitation day from Halloween to another day that week so that we can have him on Halloween. What??!
It's the first time in 7 years that she can spend Halloween with him and she doesn't want him.
I think the reason she doesn't want him is because she would have to buy him a costume.
As crazy as that sounds, it is probably the truth.
However, her son who lives with her will be going trick-or-treating on Halloween. Does any of this make sense?
My husband and I have had him for Halloween every year for the past 7 years. Before that, he was too young to go trick-or-treating.
She actually told my husband two days ago that she will switch her visitation day from Halloween to another day that week so that we can have him on Halloween. What??!
It's the first time in 7 years that she can spend Halloween with him and she doesn't want him.
I think the reason she doesn't want him is because she would have to buy him a costume.
As crazy as that sounds, it is probably the truth.
However, her son who lives with her will be going trick-or-treating on Halloween. Does any of this make sense?
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